Cybil Gilbertson, LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #149705

Are you in a marriage or relationship that feels disconnected or trapped in repetitive cycles of miscommunication and conflict? You want to rekindle your bond, deepen your trust, and learn to communicate openly. Your goal is to restore intimacy, develop mutual understanding, and build a partnership that feels safe and fulfilling, creating a lasting, meaningful connection. Therapy with me is a partnership—a shared journey toward a place within your relationship that feels more like home. I am here to meet you where you are, without judgment, and to support your unique journey. 

I specialize in supporting couples in reshaping their relationship dynamics through a blend of somatic, psychodynamic, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) approaches. I provide tools to foster empathy, trust, and secure emotional bonds, guiding couples toward authentic and resilient relationships. 

If you're ready to strengthen your relationship, I invite you to take this courageous step together. Therapy can provide a safe space to explore, heal, and rediscover each other. I am here to support your journey toward a more fulfilling and connected partnership.

I offer therapy sessions in-person in Santa Barbara or online via telehealth, serving the state of California.

Accepting new clients via Telehealth and in-person at our Santa Barbara office.

Specialities:

  • Couples Counseling

  • Marital and Premarital Counseling

  • Infidelity

  • Divorce

  • Women's Issues

  • Relationship Issues

  • Life Transitions

  • EMDR

  • Anxiety

  • Body Positivity

  • Creativity blocks

  • Depression

  • Grief

  • Life Coaching

  • Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy

  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied

  • Ecotherapy

Schedule a consult

Complete the form to schedule a virtual consultation with Cybil Gilbertson, LMFT.

Your consultation will be held over Zoom, but if you’d rather speak on the phone, just let us know.

During your consultation, Cybil will take some time to get to know you, discuss a little of what's bringing you to therapy at this time, her approach, and her fees.

Our Office Manager will reach out to you prior to your consultation to confirm the appointment and answer any questions you may have.

Cybil looks forward to meeting you!